Contributed October 2006

Most of my traveling has been in Eastern Europe, which unfortunately isn't nearly what it once was several years ago in the sexual contact department. There is, however, one notable exception to this regrettable trend, and that is the Republic of Belarus.

I've been going there over the past 8 years and it has proven to be one of the best countries I've ever visited in terms of making sexual contact with young beautiful women.

As you probably know Belarus is located between Lithuania and Russia, directly above Ukraine. It is known as the last dictatorship in Eastern Europe, and for good reason. The President, Alexander Lukashenko, has changed the constitution several times since ascending to power in the mid-90's and has now eradicated term limits for the presidency, so it looks at the moment that he will be in power for the foreseeable future. His economic policies have been strongly anti-Western, neo-communist, and anti-free-enterprise. The up-shot of all this is that Belarus is economically very stagnant, and in fact still very similar in many ways to the old Soviet Union.

This situation has made the sexual market value of foreigners, all foreigners, regardless of race, very high indeed. I myself am white, and from Canada, but I have friends in Belarus who are Chinese and Iranian, and they also have plenty of success with Belarussian women.

In terms of making sexual contact with local girls and young women it is usually as straight-foreword as asking for directions in English while walking, or asking an attractive young woman for some help in a store etc. Once they know that you speak English they will usually ask you where you are from etc. and after a few minutes conversation you can ask them if they would like to meet tomorrow, and spend some time learning about your country, practicing their English, and most will readily agree. This applies regardless of your age. I am 46 years old, I look maybe mid 30's and I had no trouble making dates with girls from 17 and up. (I've been going to Belarus for 8 years now and things in this department are actually slowly getting even better than they were, due to the deteriorating political/economic situation.)

Once you meet the girl the next day you can obviously proceed in different ways. If you want, you can take a slow approach where you meet them a couple of times and do some sightseeing, etc., then eventually invite them over to your apartment, have a couple of drinks while showing them your pictures of your home country etc. After a few drinks, and with some nice music playing, it is usually an easy matter to move things along to kissing and sex with a little slow dancing or a massage etc. I have some specific step-by-step strategies that are time-proven to work with Belarussians.

Another method of proceeding which I have found works just as well, but with much faster results, is to proceed as follows: When you meet the girl for your first date ask her how much free time she has; as long as she has at least a couple of hours free time, you then say that you too have plenty of free time, but you just need to be near your "temporary office" at xx hour to receive a telephone call from overseas, before and after that you have plenty of free time. Then suggest that you go for a walk in the area of your "temporary office/apartment", make sure that you engage her in some interesting and friendly conversation for 10 - 15 minutes so that she feels somewhat comfortable with you and trusts you enough, and when you get to your apartment just walk right in like it has already been decided that she will go up with you to wait for the call.

Usually this proceeds just fine. Sometimes she might put up some resistance at the apartment block main door, saying that she will wait downstairs for you. This doesn't happen very often, but if it does, explain to her that you have to wait for your colleague to call you, you can't call him, so he may not call exactly on time and it might be some time till you get the call and you don't want to be rude and leave her standing outside. This usually is enough to get her to come up to your apartment since she is interested and curious about you and your apartment anyway.

After that, you proceed as above with a couple of drinks etc., but with a few important differences since it is only your first date. Some particular hints are worth noting, and they are: Stay away from restaurants unless you are familiar with them and know that they are reasonably priced. If you just ask for instance: "Are you hungry?" and then let her pick the restaurant, she will often pick a very expensive restaurant and then proceed to pick all the most expensive items on the menu. Belarus can be a very cheap destination if you go about it the right way. But one of these trips to a restaurant, especially if she brings a friend along for the date, can cost you as much as an apartment for 1/2 a month. (By the way, if she does bring a friend along don't worry, it can often result in a threesome if you go about it in the right way and get them back to your apartment.)

In summary, in my experience Belarus is one of the best countries in the world at the present time for making sexual contact with good looking and sincere young women. I have personally had sex and relationships with scores of university students, young working professionals, artists and even some high-school students, all of whom were more than happy to spend time together as long as I treated them with respect and tried to show them a good time.

As far as language goes, the official languages are Russian and Belarussian, but a large percentage of younger people speak English. As long as one speaks passable English one will have no problem finding English-speaking Belarussians.