The initial impulse would be to assume that a world of many small counties would be the better sexual landscape. After all, a world of many small countries would afford more choice. There would be more cultures distinguished from each other, and there would be more legal systems. This would mean that everybody can select the one that suits him best. That's the theory.
But in reality, small countries have huge disadvantages if we evaluate the sexual landscape for foreign men seeking relationships of love and sex.
The one factor, we always tell readers to look out for, is the competition situation.
In small countries, the only urban conglomeration to talk of often is the capital. And there, you not only always have the local elite, but also all the international institutions with their foreign staff. Capital cities also always have a large percentage of a country's foreign tourists.
I have analyzed in another article that women do not aim for the best 10 percent of men. They always aim, unconsciously, for what they consider the group of the best men in their environment… not the top 10 percent, but the top 100: an absolute figure, about as many men as they can remember names.
When you want that women fall in love with you in large numbers, you must take care that there are not too many alternatives that are better than you.
Now, the least competition from other foreign men who may be better looking than you, and who are younger than you, and who display better wealth and better prospects, you always have in large countries in large cities that are rather far away from the capital.
That is why you are nowhere as exclusive as a foreign resident as you are in Chinese cities, the names of which most non-Chinese not even have ever heard: Zhenzhou, Changsha, Chengdu, and so on. Each is a city with a population in the millions.
China can have ten times as many foreign tourists as it has now. In these cities, you will always be an attraction, because the additional tourists will still go to the same destinations as the current ones: Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and so on.
It's a similar story for Indonesia. You can be exclusive in some Indonesian cities, because few foreigners go there. They go to Jakarta and Bali, and that's about it.
Now compare this to Vientiane, Phnom Penh, and Ulan Bataar. Vientiane is a village, the highest building no eight floors. But it's a capital city, and has the typical infrastructure with all the diplomatic representations and international organizations. Phnom Penh and Ulan Bataar may be bigger, but they are no good grounds, for the competition situation, too. And in all three examples, the capital city in fact is the only urban center, where, in the case of Mongolia and Cambodia, about half the country's population lives.
All three are no good options if you, as an ordinary foreigner, seek genuine love relationships. Because you are not exclusive enough.
