It is astonishing how two cultures, India and China, with just a few hundred kilometers in between them, can be so totally different. Everywhere else in the world, changes in culture, and in ethnicity, occur gradually. But the difference between India and China is total, from communication style to religion, and from language to food, and is even expressed in physical features.

Indian and Chinese girls, too, are a world apart. They couldn't be more different. While Chinese girls are rather down to earth in matters of love and sex, Indian girls are so romantic about it that it is almost metaphysical.

Just take once the opportunity to see an Indian movie. Not that these movies would reflect Indian reality. But they depict the kind of dream world that occupies the collective romantic fantasies of young Indian women.

Only some 10 to 15 years ago, it used to be difficult for Western men to score in either China or India. However, the attitudes of Chinese women are changing as fast as the landscape of the cities they live in. In India, on the other hand, I myself haven’t noticed a difference in attitudes… and I have been in India every now and then from the early 70s.

If you intend to have sexual relationships with girls and women of Indian ethnicity, your best bet is Malaysia (especially Kuala Lumpur). Nowhere in the world are Indian women and girls easier to approach (which doesn’t means that they could be approached as easily as Filipinas or Javanese girls).

You can meet Chinese girls in many countries. China is a good option if you speak at least a little Mandarin. If you don't, you can still try Shanghai and Beijing. In general, it's easier for Western men to approach Chinese women than Chinese men (for conversations, that is). Chinese girls may be eager to practice their English. Whether a sexual relationship develops out of that will depend on the girl. It's not always the case, but if you are in China for a while, the probability is high.

You can also meet Chinese girls in Malaysia, especially Kuala Lumpur, where they all speak English. Indonesia (especially Jakarta) is another option, if you speak some Bahasa Indonesia. Chinese girls on Java island do not speak Chinese, only Indonesian. On other Indonesian islands, Chinese girls do speak Chinese apart from Indonesian, but it's not Mandarin Chinese.